long distance gets deep, then not.

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long distance gets deep, then not.
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Sat, 06-11-2011 - 2:40pm

hi all,

been awhile since i've been here.

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Sat, 06-11-2011 - 3:22pm

I think it could have been that when he didn't get a job in your city, he realized that the relationship wasn't going to go anywhere.

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Sat, 06-11-2011 - 9:34pm

I really believe its the initial rush of things but eventually it goes away as it does with any relationship.

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Sun, 06-12-2011 - 3:22pm

Just a guess but I would think by his behavior that he is now either back with the girlfriend or he has found someone.

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Sun, 06-12-2011 - 8:33pm

thanks san, and others too.

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Mon, 06-13-2011 - 9:15am

I think this behavior speaks to his committment level, or his ability to commit for the long haul. I have a feeling he will be pulling out emotionally from his new or ex GF, whatever she is, eventually. He'll be moving on to some new some "love". So maybe this was for the best, to know now how he really is before you would have really has your heart broken.

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Mon, 06-13-2011 - 10:23am

I think you hit the nail on the head there w/ the conclusion that a guy who speaks very badly of his ex is probably not a good guy.

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Mon, 06-13-2011 - 3:50pm

oh; I was married to someone just like this for ten years. We are now divorced because he fooled me for many years.Mine had some def. sociopathic qualities.

It does sound like sociopathic behavior and he will keep on doing what he is doing to all women he meets.

I can bet his ex gfriend broke up with him cause she couldnt take his bahavior and now they are back together again.

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Mon, 06-13-2011 - 9:15pm

You know what my immediate thought was, after reading your first post?