Lunch with Bachelor #1

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Lunch with Bachelor #1
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 3:13pm
I just got back from my second lunch date with Bachelor #1....it went great!!! And third date is planned for Saturday night. I know I shouldn't wonder, but you all talk about ghosting, and I just don't know.... I feel that he is interested.... but how do you know? And when is it appropriate for like holding hands...kissing? I mean I think he is a slow mover... does that make sense? I know it will all happen in good time... I'm just nervous.. This is different then any other guy I have been out with...
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Registered: 05-09-2005
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 5:07pm

Kudos girlfriend, it's been so long since I have had the feeling and/or a second date (much less a third, etc.) (smile)

Don't sweat the small stuff and take it slow! Yes, "ghosting" happens, but considering this guy is making dates at the end of each date, is a GOOD thang!! As far as holding hands, kissing, just go with the flow. When it feels right it will just happen naturally!!

Okay, does brotha man have a brother or male cousin in the Atlanta area??? (smile)

Enjoy and keep us posted!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-02-2003
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 5:38pm

Yay!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2005
Wed, 09-07-2005 - 11:54am
Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

CL-Truewild1969

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2005
Wed, 09-07-2005 - 1:26pm

He tried calling me last night, but I was already asleep, so he texted me and apologized if he woke me up. And then this morning I got two emails... One was a confirmation for seeing a movie this weekend and the other was an e-card saying he was thinking about me today....

I am not getting my hopes up, yet.... It would be too soon. But the effort he is NOW showing is letting me know that he is interested. B/c before he was not trying this hard. So I am very happy that I sent that initial text asking him if he was interested or not...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-04-2005
Wed, 09-07-2005 - 1:35pm
Sounds to me like he's into you! Definitely keep us posted so we can live vicariously!! ;o)
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Registered: 06-01-2005
Thu, 09-08-2005 - 10:25am

To me, this is exactly how a guy should and does treat someone he is into.

CL-Truewild1969

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