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| Thu, 01-12-2006 - 3:23pm |
you know, sometimes being single isnt all that bad really. especially if you are, or were dating a guy like my friend. she just broke up with this guy she met online, who just doesnt really understand some things about love. it makes me happy to be single, because if i were like this guy when it comes to love... well i just dont know what i would do with my self! this is from his blog, if you need any translations just let me know.....
"ok u all, if i repeat this, forgive me. i just have so meny thouts running thu my head. so she left me. well i gess were just calling it a "brake" for now, and i wont lie, its herts a lot. it sucks cuz i thout she was happy, but aprntly just just been acting happy.this relly herts. i hopr someday shell rediscover the fealing she has for me. and i would take her back. it would be a wile befor i felt so attached to her if she does. shes said she thinks i was too much in love with her..wtf. i just desided enotions suck.. well maby thats being hash. i also desided if we can work thu this, and she rediscovers her love. we could work thu anything. and whats with the fact this happend on ur damn anavertry. isnt it funny how someone can be their for u one day and gone the next? one day be ur g/f and the next day be a friend?thats all i can think of for now. i might add more ladder"

Oh...my...spellcheck. I seriously did not realize how many people out there are illiterate and I can't understand how they made it through school, if at all!
Layx2
LMFAO!!!
I can't believe people spell that poorly. Maybe he's really good at math!!
and the beat goes on, heres his latest post. she just cant get it through his head! read on:
"well now that iv had time to somewhat recover, iv desaided tp think postivly. and say.. that hey, were just calling it a brake from echouter. so theirs a chance of getting back togeter someday. we just gotta recindle some lost fealing, which im sure well find"
and theyve talked to each other and i believe he said something like "i want to help you find your feelings for me again"... but his was probably misspelled horribly. how do you get rid of a guy like this? she doesnt want to just totally yell or anything like she wants to, heck like i want to do for her, because shes honestly affraid he'll have a really really bad reaction. i insist to her she has to or nothing is ever going to be completely resolved since he obviously doesnt understand, and how ever he reacts would not be her fault. but its still a little bit of a hard thing to work out, any ideas? thnx ladies!
She needs to be very firm with him and say that her feelings have changed and will not be "recindled". This is not a "brake" but a break-up and she wants to move on with her life because there is NO chance they will get back together. She then needs to say that she doesn't want him to contact her anymore. If he keeps it up, she should block his number, email, IM and not answer any communication. Hopefully he won't try coming by her house or anything but if he does, she should have a male friend that can help her out by asking him to leave. If it gets way out of hand, she might need to call the police.
Of course this is all assuming that she really wants nothing to do with him ever, EVER again.
I agree that she needs to strictly enforce no contact...but not that she should only do it if she never wants to speak to him again. Even if she is open to being friends with him down the road, she still needs to enforce no contact NOW.
Sheri
True...but I was thinking more in years not months. I'm friends with a few exes who I never thought would be ok with being friends, but you never know what will happen a few years down the road.
Of course, he may never get to the point where he's ok with being friends. I just didn't want to convey the message that she should ONLY do no contact if she never, ever wants to speak to him again. She should do no contact even if she hopes they can be friends someday.
Sheri