March 2007 visit

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Registered: 04-07-2005
March 2007 visit
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Fri, 10-20-2006 - 11:11am

I met a man online accidentally back in February and we have been getting to know each other since. We share common interests and talk frequently. I have posted about this man before. He lives in FLA I am in CA. We knew we liked each other but knew with the distance and other relationships in our lives that kept us grounded. Here it is many months later and we are resolving other relationships and have found ourselves intrigued by each other. We talk on the phone daily and rarely spend anytime online anymore. This man has been one of the best things that has happened to me in my life in regards to friendships. He is a nice supportive man and never once judged me. We talk to each other about our lives and struggles and know that we support each other completely. I know some of you would say that we couldn't know each other as well I think we do and I would definitely disagree.

He asked me yesterday about my relationship with a co-worker and he knows that the co-worker and I are becoming distance and he asked if we could plan a trip for him to visit me. With the fact that the co-worker and I are indeed are distancing ourselves and it appears that the relationship isn't going to succeed I agreed. We searched flights and agreed that March would be the best time due to the holidays and other things on our schedule. I am so excited!!

I wanted to share my excitement and remind everyone that every person has value and you just never know what might happen. If you put too many restrictions on people you never know what you might miss out on. Now would I ever move to FLA to be with this man? Who knows?? What I do know is that I will get to spend some time with a very nice man who has been there for me more than anyone in my life right now. He makes me laugh ALOT and doesn't care if I am limited physically, overweight or imperfect. And has the most amazing blue eyes!!!!!

Thanks for letting me share.

F

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Registered: 03-27-2004
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 12:03am

Fluffy, you go for it GIRL!

Now between now and then, just relax, believe in yourself, and do some great things for you like manicures, pedicures, messages, yoga (it is for everyone!) sleep, vitamins, dreaming of his beautiful blue eyes, tee hee.

Have fun! Keep us posted!!

Chick