March Roll Call

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Registered: 05-31-2005
March Roll Call
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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 6:41pm

Well since Jodie used to do this, I figured I should carry on the tradition... :o)


Name?

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Registered: 02-20-2006
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 9:05am

Name?
"Orchid" :)

How long have you been doing OLD (OnLine Dating)?
Off and on for a few years

When was your last OLD meet?
Saturday afternoon - coffee with a guy from eharmony

How did it go?
I had a really nice time. Nice conversation, no awkward silences. I think we have common values and he lives VERY close to me which would be convenient if things work out. At the end he asked me if I'd like to go to dinner "in the next week or two," I said yes and he said he would be in touch. I am not sure if he will call though. I know from the way he looked at me that he found me attractive but he seemed reserved and a bit like he is holding back. I have read articles about body language but usually don't notice it on a first meet too much, but with this guy I did - arms crossed, legs pointed toward the door - not good according to body language experts. And the "next week or two" seemed sort of like his interest level might not be too high. But I'm not going to read too much into all of that stuff and I hope he does call! The only negatives I see so far are that he works long hours so I am not sure how much time he has for a relationship and like I said I think he is pretty reserved/hard to get to know - but then I am too!

What one piece of advice would you give to people who are new to OLD?
Take things at your own pace, always realize that when you first meet someone you are dealing with a stranger so be careful, and like Kerry said don't take things personally.

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Registered: 05-09-2005
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 9:25am

Name? Stephanie

How long have you been doing OLD (OnLine Dating)? Off and on for about 2 years.

When was your last OLD meet? A week ago.

How did it go? Met a week ago Thursday, nice guy, tall and slim (usually like larger guys); couldn't tell if he was interested; but he ended the date saying possibly we can go to the movies sometimes. He did call me after 30 mins. to see if I arrived home safely which was a nice gesture. He sent quick "hello, how is your day" emails twice during the week to which I briefly replied "fine, hope you are having a great day!" I was busy at work and really couldn't chat but needless to say he doesn't really say much over email -- mmh, he was like that initially as well and wanted to meet rather quickly. Anyway called him on Sunday to say hello and left message. He called back only to say he was playing videos w/his son and then heading to the movies. Inretrospect I'm still chatting w/other people online.

What one piece of advice would you give to people who are new to OLD? Personally it's a numbers game -- like finding a needle in a haystack. Have a strong sense of self and keep enjoying life. You may or may not find someone; but don't stop living because of it!!!

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:15am

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:34am

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:39am

Name? Sniffle_sally

How long have you been doing OLD (OnLine Dating)? Off and On for several years

When was your last OLD meet? February 10th

How did it go? Thought it was going nice until he blew me off for a week and then when I closed the match he got all pissy and sent me a nasty gram trying to manipulate me and guilting me by saying how he worked 65 hours all week 15 hours on Valentines day (who cares) and then was sick all weekend...blah blah blah NEXT!!!!

What one piece of advice would you give to people who are new to OLD? Don't take it too seriously and don't put all your eggs in one basket

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Registered: 08-19-2004
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:29pm

Name? Carol

How long have you been doing OLD (OnLine Dating)?
Too long (sorry, couldn't resist :) Seriously, off and on, about two years.

When was your last OLD meet?
Last Friday.

How did it go?
Okay. No fireworks but worth a second date.

What one piece of advice would you give to people who are new to OLD?
Don't wait too long before meeting. It's amazingly easy to think you not only know someone but are falling for them when all you've done is exchange a bunch of emails with a stranger.