Married Men on the net

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Married Men on the net
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Sun, 08-06-2006 - 4:04pm
What would you say are signs of someone who's married but has a profile up? I've been speaking to a man 3 weeks now from Match.com and I'm beginning to think he's married...He gave me his cellphone but he never answers it...it doesn't have his voice on it and he calls at wierd times of the night. He says he works night and commutes a lot but it just seems suspicious. He hasn't actually asked to meet me and it seems as if he always abruptly hangs up, saying he'll call me back and sometimes he doesn't till a day or two later. He says things like "Oh, sorry, we got busy at work" or that someone was paging him so he had to hang up quickly. I feel as if our conversations are in bits and pieces--I haven't even had a chance to ask the guy's last name. I have yet to actually have a 45 minute conversation with the guy. Could he be married? I know he works nights so he sleeps during the day and he does have a long commute but he doesn't appear to know what he wants to he isn't taking this too serious. Or could the guy be that absent-minded or I'm just expecting too much too soon?
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Registered: 08-06-2006
Sun, 08-06-2006 - 6:10pm
I agree with you. I wouldn't spend another minute wasting my time trying to talk to this guy. Even if he's not married, he's not behaving like a guy who wants to meet. I mean it's been three weeks, right? NEXT!