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A match for everyone?
| Tue, 10-11-2005 - 5:11pm |
Some friends and I have been discussing our single status, and that of people who seem to be willing to settle just so they aren't alone, or people who are just poison, yet they have an SO, etc.
I'm wondering - does everyone have a "meant to be"? Meaning, that one match out there that's meant for you, and when you are meant to be, you will meet and the timing and everything will be right.
I know there are wonderful examples of "yes", like our own dear gigi and his wife, but is it for EVERYONE?
I think the frustration our particular group is having is that we are all attractive, smart, together people, yet can't seem to meet decent people to date. Yes, we see the train wrecks who manage to find love.


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Mitsy...when it comes to online dating, just because a man makes initial contact with you and you chat a few times, doesn't mean that he is only making contact with "you!" I'm glad you "toyed" with the idea of sending nastygrams, because if you did he probably would have thought you had issues. The assumption I would have made with this guy (like so many guys I've met that have ghosted) was "he met someone else".
FYI, you will see that a lot of guys may come back around after "ghosting" and throw out an email or an IM, few chats and then "ghost" again! You can make excuses for him, but unless his 90% hectic job/lifestyle has not changed, then I question why you would even want to be bothered as a friend or even in a romance.
Stack em up!!!
Edited 10/15/2005 12:33 am ET by mitsy2
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