match or eharmony?!?
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match or eharmony?!?
| Tue, 02-07-2006 - 7:49pm |
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I know this question has been asked before-- but which site do you ladies like more? Logically, eharmony SOUNDS conducive to meeting your "best" match(es), but I have also heard negative things about the site, as well. I have a friend who met her current beau from eharmony (after having been on both eharm. and match), and she swears by it. I have used match and recently got out of a 3-month relationship that sprung from that. I feel like I'll be ready to date again soon, or at least, dip my foot into the water a little, but whenever I browse match, I see the same old faces. I think I may try eharmony just to try something new, but I wanna know what your experiences have been on both/either.
Thank you!!!!!

It really depends on you and your area which will work for you. Both could, one could or neither could. I personally do not like Match. I have had little luck meeting any quality guys out there as it seems like everyone is always looking for the BBD (bigger better deal). I have done eHarmony and met several guys but there has been no chemistry with any of them. I definitely think the QUALITY is better on eH, but the rules still don't change.
My suggestion would be to get a profile on eH and see the numbers and types of matches they send you before shelling out the money to join. It's not a cheap service and you would hate it if you put that money in to find out they only match you with 2 guys that live 100 miles away from you. Besides, they tend to send you coupons for 3 months for 1 deals if you complete the profile and don't join. One thing to note if you do this is that you will not be able to see photos of the guys they match you with but you can read their profiles.
In the meantime, cruise Match and see if there are guys that interest you. Send free winks if you want or see who winks at you.
You never know so it could be worth a shot!