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|Thu, 11-19-2009 - 1:05pm|
I met my boyfriend in May from match.com, and we've been dating exclusively since June. Things have progressed very well, he spends all his free time with me (when he's not working, which he does quite a bit), and asked me to join him in New Orleans when his parents visit from Sweden.
I receive tons of "Love is on sale" emails from Match, and I logged in (my profile is not visible) to disable them. Out of curiosity, I typed in his username and saw he had accessed his account 5 days ago. I will assume he wasn't trolling for babes and that he either got emailed and was curious, or was like me and trying to adjust his settings, but it still upset me. I would like to ask him to take it down, but I also don't like that I have to ask him - what motive can there be for him having it visible still? If he took the effort to login, he can take the effort to make it invisible. Should I just confront him with my feelings and ask him to take it down, or should I consider some more upsetting possibilities for why his profile would still be up?