Matched with a classmate

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chel222
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Registered: 07-06-2010
Matched with a classmate
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 Sun, 06-05-2011 - 10:24am
I'm not sure what to do. I got a subscription to match, which is now out because I just did it for a month. I was matched with a guy I went to high school with. I am interested in him but I'm not sure what to do. I know he looked at my profile because it shows you who has looked at it, and may have even been multiple times. I'm not sure if he is a member or not, but he didn't message me. I know who he is and I think a little bit about what he is like, buy I never talked to him much while we were in school. We have been out for 6 years. I guess my question is, should I send him message on Facebook? What shouldn't say? Any advice would be appreciated! I have horrible luck with guys so I don't want to do something stupid. I really think he is the kind of guy I'm looking for!

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cmtasha
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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Mon, 06-13-2011 - 7:57am

Keep your chin up, chel!

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chel222
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Registered: 07-06-2010
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Fri, 06-10-2011 - 9:09pm
Thank you everyone. I'm guessing he's not interested. I'll just move on and hope that someone will be someday :) I'm going to try focusing on me for awhile and see why happens! I've been working out and joined weight watchers. I want to feel better about myself!
welovedates
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Registered: 05-19-2011
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Thu, 06-09-2011 - 1:40pm

Good for you for trying-and don't feel rejected at all...now you can move on to someone else.

chel222
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Registered: 07-06-2010
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Tue, 06-07-2011 - 4:33pm
And there was definitely effort. It took a lot for me to push that send button! I will try to do better next time! Ibjust figured less I more and I tend to ramble so I didn't want to make it too long..
chel222
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Registered: 07-06-2010
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Tue, 06-07-2011 - 4:31pm
You're probably right, but I know that he saw my profile on match so he has to know what I'm doing right? I guess I can wait a few more days. I'll just be surprised if he ever writes back!
jt308
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Registered: 02-08-2011
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Tue, 06-07-2011 - 10:06am

Actually you're still on guy time - 1 -5 days is all the same to us. It's great that you made a move to contact him. Good job! But I'm tossing in this suggestion - it might have helped to write a few more sentences to try to connect with him better. One sentence sounds like someone bored on FB one night and didn't

cmtasha
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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Tue, 06-07-2011 - 9:02am

Aww, chel I'm sorry.

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chel222
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Registered: 07-06-2010
In reply to: chel222
Re: Matched with a classmate
 Mon, 06-06-2011 - 8:16pm
Nope :(
cmtasha
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Registered: 04-21-2008
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Re: Matched with a classmate
 Mon, 06-06-2011 - 11:56am

Any word from him today?

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chel222
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Registered: 07-06-2010
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Re: Matched with a classmate
 Sun, 06-05-2011 - 11:45pm
I just asked him "Hi, how have you been?" at about 3:00 today and he hasn't responded. I saw that he was online this evening and still no response. I guess I will give it a day or so. He is either thinking or not going to respond... I hope he does though! And that I'm not going to regret trying this type of thing again. Being rejected is the worst!

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