May have a 1st meet tomorrow nite ..

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Registered: 03-15-2004
May have a 1st meet tomorrow nite ..
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Fri, 01-19-2007 - 10:29pm

unless he ghosted. Not sure. & its not the pilot guy. I still email with him every other day or so (a week or 2 now) but he hasnt suggested meeting. He is brand new to OLD AND is a single Dad with the mom far away, so maybe he doesnt go out much. I wish he WOULD ask me out though, b/c I would like to meet him.


This other guy is a CL guy & he just seemed nice, handsome, a little out of my age range (49, I am 39), but he seemed nice enough & on Monday asked if I wanted to meet for coffee on the weekend. I told him I dont drink coffee but maybe we could meet for a casual drink & he said "Sure thats great". BUT, I was maybe on call for Sat & he said "its fine, it can even be last minute. I have no plans so you can call me last minute, evn on

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Registered: 10-29-2006
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 11:16am

You told him you would let him know friday about saturday, so he is probably waiting for your call. If he is a nice guy, he might not want to pressure you. So why don't you just give him a call and let him know?

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Registered: 02-20-2004
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 12:13pm

The pilot guy you're chatting with is doing the same thing this guy I'm chatting with. Only contacting me every 2-3 days and making no mention of meeting. I feel your frustration. So, did the CL guy end up making plans with you? Or did he ghost?

Jen

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Sat, 01-20-2007 - 1:22pm

Aha! He just called about an hour ago & left a message. Sounds VERY nice. He said he was sorry he hadnt seen his email since Thurs

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Sat, 01-20-2007 - 2:30pm

Ok, I called him back & we chatted only briefly (i am NOT a phone person!) but he was very nice, easygoing, had a nice voice, lol ... & i asked him if he would mind Sunday nite instead of tonite & he was fine with it.

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Registered: 02-20-2004
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 2:41pm

Yea! He sounds really nice. I'm glad he didn't ghost on you. Have fun!

Jen

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Registered: 03-17-2006
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 3:27pm

The emails you exchanged were cute! I'm sure he appreciates your honesty on not being a size 4. :) I hope you have fun! Keep us posted!

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