Meeting an on-line friend...need advice!
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|Tue, 07-08-2003 - 8:38am|
We've always talked about meeting and lo and behold a few weeks ago she invited me out for the weekend....here's the tough part. We can talk about anything...and do....and about a month ago...she hooked up her webcam....and put on one heck of a show!!! I've been living in a cold shower ever since then. :)
So last night....we're talking about me coming for the weekend and out of the blue she hits me with the...."You know we need to clear up one thing.....don't expect to sleep together when you're here."
Her statement did not surprise me...but I don't know why she would say that considering we are two highly sexual people. She knows I am not looking for a relationship...nor would one ever develop between us...we live too far away.
I responded that sleeping with her is not the reason I am visiting...which is true...and I am still going to visit....but the difficult part is knowing how we really flirt and tease each other is going to kill me while I am there because I do want to sleep with her...but I can and will behave.
My questions are why would she say what she did knowing I don't want a relationship with her...that she most likely knows I have a physical crush on her...and that she's shown all on the webcam to me? Is it a pre-defensive move? What is the deal here???
Regardless, I'll still go.....and have fun....but I think the flirting will still go on from her, especially if we go out and party...and I'll end up sleeping in the cold showers!!!
Can anyone explain this to me?