meeting offline for sex

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Registered: 05-27-2005
meeting offline for sex
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Sat, 07-16-2005 - 2:28pm
Do you think many people chat with someone online a few times and then meet for sex without even meeting for coffee or something beforehand? I know someone who is considering doing this.

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Sat, 07-16-2005 - 8:02pm
Don't do it! I have felt similar to what you are describing and EVERY time it hurts. This last guy I sort of new wouldn't work out but I was so attracted to him so I did it.
Now I have decided - I am not going to shave my legs anymore going on the date!!! so not to feel tempted. :) :)
GO to sauna or go for a run/gym - get that energy out but I don't recommend hooking up just for sex.
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Registered: 02-07-2005
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 5:19pm

Hi Icaroline,

I think it might be the wording on your profile of wanting to "have fun" - I think guys think having fun means having sex! At least that is what I have found. I have had many that just want to have sex also, and that is why I seldom talk on IM, especially at night as most of the guys on at night are looking for a hook-up of sex.

I also think the professional ladies use the sites to get their johns or whatever they call them now also. I've been told by a few guys that I met online and have become friends with, that ladies are out there also just looking to have sex, so it's not just the guys.

There are decent guys out there who's main objective is not just to score on date one, but they are hard to find! Hang in there...

Sunshine

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Registered: 11-20-2003
Tue, 07-19-2005 - 8:30am
LOL! That is exactly what I do on dates... don't shave my legs! And I keep them hairy for as many dates as possible! It really does work every time!
Clem xx
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Registered: 06-03-2004
Tue, 07-19-2005 - 1:19pm

Hi Dream Angel!
Well, there are tons of people who do this; but they get online with that goal in mind. There are also millions of people who are looking for a serious relationship and they join dating sites where other people are likely to want the same thing. That's why there are separate sites for the "adult meetings" and just general dating sites!

Don't worry, not everyone wants to do this, and it is also something you'll notice right away... I mean, either they ask you for coffee, or not! stay away from it if it is not for you!

Chris

http://www.datingsos.com

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Registered: 04-21-2003
Tue, 07-19-2005 - 8:55pm
Very intriguing and amusing discussion. It seems to come down to this: if so many men are getting the wrong idea, it's either something in one's profile (like those words that seem innocent to us, but are code words to men, e.g., "fun") or what one talks about with a man. Too bad that we have to be "old-fashioned girls" and watch our language and behavior so carefully, isn't it?

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