Men with Crazy Ex-girlfriends
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Men with Crazy Ex-girlfriends
| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 7:06am |
Went out on one date with this guy from Match. I was unsure about him. He seemed too introverted and seemed to have not many interests outside work that he was really passionate about. This past weekend there is a voicemail on my phone from his phone: "This is his girlfriend. Don't call this number again or I will kick your a**" Huh? Yup I am being threatened via voicemail by the apparent girlfriend of a so-so guy I met online (have a indeed reached the lowest point ever?).
Last night there is a note from him in my Match inbox. That he is sorry his EX-girlfriend who he broke up with in July has been calling people in his cell phone. That he hopes I can forgive and go out on another date.
I think not. However it is sad that this guy (who apparently has more drama in his life than it is worth) was the only one that I have met that showed any interest in me.
So what do you think? His story believable? Have anyone her ever gotten the kick your a** call.
Last night there is a note from him in my Match inbox. That he is sorry his EX-girlfriend who he broke up with in July has been calling people in his cell phone. That he hopes I can forgive and go out on another date.
I think not. However it is sad that this guy (who apparently has more drama in his life than it is worth) was the only one that I have met that showed any interest in me.
So what do you think? His story believable? Have anyone her ever gotten the kick your a** call.

I got a phone call from a girlfriend/ex-girlfriend. I never did find out who she "belonged" to, though. I suspect, though, that she was involved with a guy I met at the country bar who I ended up having a one-nighter with. Although, after her call, I never spoke to him again to confirm that. (We never saw eachother after the one night, but he did call me regularly for a while afterwards). Basically, I got a voice mail telling me, "Stay away from my man, you ..."
I do know for a fact that ex's can be psycho (I personally know girls who have gone so far as to call up cell phone companies and get call details on an ex's phone so they could call and harrass people), so I do think the story is somewhat believable. But you don't really know him, so you'll never really know for sure unless you get to know him better. That is, if you WANT to get to know him better. At this point, it's up to you.
Wow.
It could be true...
My son's estranged wife somehow got into his voicemail. He said that she can access it and found the number of the girl that he is seeing. She went over to the girl and made up this story that they were still together, etc.
I would not see him again because of the drama...life is way too short.
I kind of feel sorry for the guy if things are as he says they are. He has to be going crazy with this nut on his tail. However, I would walk away. I wouldn't want to be caught in the middle or possibly have this unstable woman come after me. Think "Fatal Attraction".
And I also would like to know how she has access to the numbers stored on his phone?
<<...she could have somehow gotten hold of his cell phone bill, which would list call details...>>
So that would be a big honking red flag to me (actually, the whole situation is..LOL). She's around his place where she could get to it and, if she's so gone, what's she doing there?
I dunno, CGUN. I guess it takes all kinds.
Voicemail is one thing, if she had left him a message with her phone number I can see that, but merely getting the phone number from his cell phone she'd have to be present to look at it. Sounds far fetched to me. Some girls may go to that extent but I'd have a sneaking suspicion this girl is still in his life.
I don't look at other peoples cell phones nor would I give out my password to ANYONE. There are definitely kooks out there but I would just steer clear, they are probably still bf/gf and he just hasn't told her yet they are broken up. LOL
Edited 9/15/2005 11:26 am ET ET by sniffle_sally
LOL I'm just playing Devil's Advocate here...she could have stolen his bill from his mailbox or called the phone company pretending to be him (or, rather, had a guy call pretending to be him). I actually DO know women who have gone so far as to do this.
But I agree with the other posters that regardless of how she obtained the number, it may be a little too much drama.