Men who will only date one at a time!
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Men who will only date one at a time!
| Fri, 03-24-2006 - 11:22am |
Guys who refuse to date more than one girl at a time.
A few weeks ago I went out with a guy who before we met, he spoke of OLD an how initially he had 5 dates a week when he started doing it a year ago and/or spoke to girls who had back to back dates the same day.

Yes, I've run into that, occasionally...I explain why I am not interested in exclusivity right off the bat (nicely, like you did) and I figure if they really have a problem with understanding why I date more than one person when we're just getting to know each other, then they're not a good match for me anyway!
I think this POV may have something to do with guys tending to have more trouble multi-tasking than women ;-)! I really don't see why dating other people automatically means that you're not focusing on each person as an individual while you are with him...I don't think it's that hard to do.
Either that, or it's because of the delicate male ego ;-)...they can't stand the thought of having competition, ha!
Sheri
Puhleeeze!! Yes, I've met men who "talked" this way and it was all BS. Sorry, Ms. P, but this guy ghosted for one reason, you didn't take the bait. There is the perception that there are desperate women on OLD; so if guy talks about how he prefers to date only you so he can focus only on you; well then only you will give him some sex rather quickly.
Actually most of the guys I've met who spoke this way, were serial daters.
Yeah, that’s what I figured. I was surprised he put his arm around me (in my mind I’m thinking, hey pal, what do you think you’re doing) but it was just for like 20 seconds & I was about to hop in my car…..
check out this email I got just now (I can't believe women actually fall for this) and the end kills me...."I love kissing, even in public and don't worry, I think I remember how to please a woman."
Can we be more subtle????? Geez!
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Ok, "I think I remember how to please a woman"??? I'm almost gagging over here. For several reasons. I don't think I really need to explain them.
And the rest of it, well, he could step off his soap box at any time.
M
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