To Message or Not to Message...That is (one of) the Question(s)...

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Registered: 04-08-2011
To Message or Not to Message...That is (one of) the Question(s)...
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Fri, 04-08-2011 - 2:46am

Well, well I have a little predicament and could really use some advice.

None of my friends know I'm in OLD

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Well now you're going to get completely opposite advice, so you'll still have to make up your own mind.

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Registered: 12-05-2010
sireanita wrote:

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Registered: 02-23-2010

I think what I would do is message him and say how glad you are that he returned safely.....let him take the cue and see what he does.

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Registered: 04-08-2011
thank you guys so much for the advice!
I still haven't sucked it up and decided what I will ultimately do...
As a general rule I do not login to match on the weekends so I still have some time to decide.

He deleted his facebook account shortly after departing for Iraq so I can't look for him that way--otherwise I definitely would've gone the "friend" him route.

He is definitely a paying member as he is one of those "green members" and logs in regularly.

I am suuuuper chicken to mention that we've met before but we'll see what happens. With any luck I'll decide soon and let you all know what happens!!

Reaaaally appreciate it :) <3
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sireanita wrote:

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For those of you who were interested...

I bit the bullet and sent a match message to the guy. Literally two clever sentences and left it that. No mention of having met him, etc. (Sorry, guys: I just got to thinking that the only reason I recognized him was that I had looked up his fb page the night I met him...and he happened to use the fb profile pic as a match pic...otherwise I'd have no clue.).

Anyway I just received an email back from him a few minutes ago. It was hillarious...definitely didn't disappoint!
I'll let you guys know what happens!