Met him and married him.

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Registered: 04-09-2003
Met him and married him.
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Thu, 05-18-2006 - 1:10am

I met this really terrific guy online in November of last year. I've met lots of guys online but this one was so different. I also met him on Fusion101 which is a free Christian website. I love it!! You need to check it out.

Anyway, I live in Canada and he lives in Kansas. We talked on the phone a lot. Did the email thing. Did the text messaging. I flew out to Kansas to meet him in January. I flew back in February to marry him. He flew out to Canada in March. I flew back to Kansas in April. After a lot of deliberation, we decided that he would come to Canada. I have a great job that I love and he was looking for a change after being at the same job for 20 years. He sold his house and moved to Canada. I have never been happier in my life. He doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs or have an abusive history. I have spoke to his exwife who said he is a great guy - they just got married too young and she left him for another man. I've met his entire family. He treats his mother very good.

I'm so in love with my new husband. This is the most radical thing I have ever done - my family and friends were shocked to death, but now that they are spending time with him and getting to know him, they can see why I did what I did. My exhusband is having a fit about it. Its funny because I knew my ex for four years before I married him and the marriage didn't work out, so who is he to judge what I'm doing now??

Keep looking. The right guy is out there.

T.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 05-18-2006 - 10:13am

On the one hand... OMG girl, 'radical' is an understatement,

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 05-19-2006 - 12:58pm
Well! If he treats his mom well AND his X-wife can stand up for him ... i think you have hit the lottery! Good for you!
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