Met a new guy..

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Registered: 08-16-2004
Met a new guy..
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Tue, 05-17-2005 - 8:34am

And things are going GREAT. We had a date Friday and Sunday night. Yesterday he met me for lunch as well. My question is, has anyone ever had a first date with a guy (not a meet, a date) and had it feel just right, perfect, amazingly good? I'm 26 years old and this was probably the best date of my life. He was a perfect gentleman, conversation was great, had a lot of laughs, had a nice kiss at the end of the night. I feel like we have known each other forever. We are both really comfortable around each other and have a lot in common. He told me on Sunday that he isn't dating anyone else and I told him the same. Now whether that means we are exclusive or not, I'm not quite sure. This guy is a total sweetheart and from the looks of things I can tell he really likes me. He always calls me, always suggests the dates we had gone on, etc. I'm not questioning him like I have with the guys in my past. No need to reference HJNTIY.

The way I feel after I see him is so hard to explain, I even told my friends after our first date that I could fall in love with this guy. This is crazy! I never act this way, they even said at dinner last night how I'm just glowing and they've never seen me like this before. Talked to my mom about it, she said I'm acting the way she did when she met my dad, that she knew he was "the one" right away. I'm not thinking like that obviously, maybe I'm just smitten by this guy. I guess I'm just seeing if there are any others out there that have experienced something similar to what I am. That I'm seriously not going crazy or something.

Layx2

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Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: layx2
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 7:43pm
LOL, LG, I confess the thought did cross my mind, but as it happened, I knew for a fact that he wanted to kiss me, and vice versa, the timing just was never right until it finally happened. (and it was beyond perfect and totally romantic.) We have talked about that of course, and we agree that it was worth the wait. There were several times when it *almost* happened prior to the first kiss, but we always come back to it has so far been a perfect progression of events in every way. We both highly value the other and the place we fill in each others life and take nothing for granted and know how lucky we are and are thouroughly enjoying getting to know each other more deeply and intimately and we become more connected every day. We are so in love it is disgusting, lol. The really awesome part is, my kids adore him and he adores them right back.
Jynna

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