Met someone and now he won't talk
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Met someone and now he won't talk
| Sat, 05-21-2005 - 11:03pm |
I'm new to this, so I thought I would give it a try. I started talking to this wonderful guy through a dating site and things went really good. We started off by emailing or talking online to eachother everyday for just over a month. Then we started talking on the phone and everything was still really good. I was really interested in him and he seemed to be just as interested in me. We both talked about how we wanted to pursue a relationship. Then after about a month and a half of talking to eachother we decided to meet. I live in BC and he lives in Alberta. I met him and stayed with him for a few days, even though he worked most of the time everything still went good. We both learned alot from eachother and even though we've both been really hurt in the past still wanted to work on a relationship with eachother. My last night with him, we talked about everything (values, past relationships, us). It was a perfect last night. We talked for about a week after I got home and everything still seemed good. Now a month after meeting him, he rarely talks to me. He says he's busy with work and things and not to worry. I just don't understand why things went so good before and after we met and now he's suddenly quiet with me.
I would appreciate any advice.
I would appreciate any advice.

Did you talk about when you're getting together again, and how you would make an LDR (long-distance relationship) work? Maybe he's having second thoughts about that aspect of things.
Sheri
Dunno but could guess:
1. Someone else is in the picture
2. Changed his mind
3. Is juggling a few other online people
Doesn't really matter which of the three - the thing to do is move along (aka - don't contact him - let him contact you). The lesson to be learned is that lengthy first dates don't always translate into relationships.
you have a straight answer...
he's ignoring you.
isn't that answer enough?
Well, I think it's best if you assume that he's changed his mind for whatever reason. I wouldn't contact him any more. If he gets back in touch with you, then you can see what he says and decide if you want to give it another go.
Sheri