Models, Idealism, Hollywood
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Models, Idealism, Hollywood
| Sat, 07-15-2006 - 10:32am |
I am SOOO disappointed in the idealism that I've noticed alot of men who have OLD ads have. But it seems as though alot of them are looking for a fashion model, and not a normal woman. Its like they are holding out for that impossible catch. I'm a slim, nice looking woman in my mid-40's. I can't seem to get a decent nibble on OLD. If I post some nice pics, all I get are younger men looking for sex, or older men that I'm not interested in. It seems as though the men my age just aren't interested. If I DON'T post a pic, then I can usually get quite a few responses UNTIL they see what I look like. I KNOW I'm not an ugly woman. Most of the time, I don't even get beyond the initial picture exchange with the ones I'm interested in. So I know its not my personality, or anything I've said. Its just frustrating. Does anyone else have this problem? Maybe its just me.
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| Sat, 07-15-2006 - 4:24pm |
Jeanie, you are right on! I've had the same experiences over the past 6 months, but I thought it was because of my age, I'm 55. Go figure, it happens to all of us! I am attractive, have a successful career and get the losers, scammers and married guys looking for affairs. I've met a few good men and had a few dates but they just didn't work out. I had good photos, but decided to go to Glamour Shots and get some better ones. I've gotten more emails/winks with the new photos but still the same type guys. I've come to the conclusion there are only a few good men using OLD and it will probably take sorting through thousands of duds to find those few good men. Although OLD is disappointing I think it provides more opportunities to meet a good man than traditional methods. The only dates I've had in the past 6 months are a result of OLD, so there you go! Persistence is the key along with having some fun with OLD. I'm at the point that I would like to meet a good man and have some FUN. If things develop into more, fine, if not it wasn't meant to be. I believe it is better to be a HAPPY single that a miserable partner/wife. Have fun with the OLD and don't give up!
