The most honest profile...ever!

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The most honest profile...ever!
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Thu, 10-13-2005 - 7:50pm

OMG! Boredom really is entertaining! LOL, here's one in the St. Louis area off Match. The guy is honest at least...check it out.

So you say you want honesty. Truth is, every heterosexual male that sees you, me included, are evaluating you as a sexual partner. And yes, your attitude and intelligence are part of that evaluation, but only after you get past the look test. It happens on an ongoing basis until we die. It can’t be stopped; it’s part of the propagation of the species. So get over it. Honesty has to focus on sex because that is what we lie about most. Nobody lies about wanting more money or power. But sex is private and we are insecure and it is the most difficult truth to face. While I do live a balanced, healthy life I think Freud was correct. It boils down to desire. The things we do are done to satisfy our desires, what ever they may be. We are all flawed in societies eyes and it is difficult to be honest with yourself, but we must in order meet that person whose flaws we mesh with. If you want honesty, I have never cheated on a girl friend or my ex-wife in my life. Being faithful is very important to me. That being said I still love going to a strip club with my girl and letting things get freaky. My girl can have all the girls she wants, just can’t keep it secret and absolutely no sex with other men, flirt all you want, even a little touching but it must be kept in the open with each other. Sorry I cannot reciprocate; I’m just into women. I want a woman who is willing to give openly to me, as I will to her. I want all of you and you would get all of me. But we need to balance out life as well. Enjoy quiet time at home. Dedication to work and community. If there are children involved then dedication to them as well. Communication, honesty and acceptance. If you can do that with a person love you will never want for anything. That is just a small part of me, if you have any interest in any more, let me know. If you want to laugh, have some fun, discuss some topics and see if anything develops, give me a shot. I will send a photo upon request.

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Registered: 10-08-2005
Thu, 10-13-2005 - 8:34pm

ROFL!! Wow, that is rich...let's see how long he keeps it up there like that. What a scream!

Actually, my old boyfriend once told me what guys are actually thinking about us girls and I was shocked!! Who knew!! Whew! Maybe he was an exception....

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Registered: 09-14-2005
Thu, 10-13-2005 - 8:37pm
I'd go out with him depending on how tall he is and what he looks like. You better bring it if you're gonna talk like that, ya know?
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Registered: 08-10-2005
Fri, 10-14-2005 - 12:12am
I notice there is mention that he will send a picture upon request.....I bet he is a troll boy.
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Registered: 05-09-2005
Fri, 10-14-2005 - 9:25am
I would respond out of sheer curiosity --- I wanna know what he looks like!!! Since he put it out there like that, I bet he is probably good looking and hopefully at least 6 feet. (smile)
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Fri, 10-14-2005 - 9:56am
Okay, so the guy has NO picture up, AND has a really awful ad.

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Fri, 10-14-2005 - 10:20am
The honesty is refreshing, but the part about "strip clubs" and his woman going with him would bother me greatly. How kinky is this guy? That would be my first question. True, most guys are interested in sex, but not all guys expect it to be OK to go to strip clubs AFTER they are in a committed relationship. I'm no prude, but this guy would not be someone I would want to meet.
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Registered: 09-26-2005
Fri, 10-14-2005 - 12:30pm
Yes his ad is bruttally honest, but I would never respond to it. The strip club thing, no way, girl action, no way ! If we were in a committed relationship, trust me we wouldn't need outside help. This hot latina, can generate enough action on her own-thank you. Yes, honesty is good, but there also is a thing called decorum. He could have gotten his point across with out being so explicit. He should save what he is saying for someone who does respond to his ad and then discuss it at a later, more appropriate time. Yes, we are all sexual beings, but he made it way too much of a focus on his profile. If he has so much more to offer than highlight that, and save the sexual stuff for later. These types of profiles are a big turn off to me, hey if you can't peak my interest in an intelligent, fun manner; woo me, wine me, dine me and all the other fun courting rituals, you'll never get anywhere with me. I understand he wants to eliminate all the bs, but there's a better more tactful way to do it. I seriously doubt that any serious women of quality will respond to his ad.
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Fri, 10-14-2005 - 1:48pm
In some ways, this guy reminds me of Guy #3 (see Little Man's Syndrome thread) that I met for dinner. The one who could not commit BEFORE having sex. Said he wasn't going to be "celebate" waiting for the right one. He also indicated that sex was one of his "best" qualities. Maybe it was because his personality was nothing to get excited about. LOL I didn't want to stick around to see about his sexual skills. After meeting him, his whole persona was a turn-off. As they say..."next". :0
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Registered: 10-08-2005
Fri, 10-14-2005 - 2:59pm
LOL...do these guys really get girlfriends???
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 10-14-2005 - 4:21pm

That being said I still love going to a strip club with my girl and letting things get freaky

Real high class. Charming. Tell me how did you manage to resist him?

My girl can have all the girls she wants Sorry I cannot reciprocate; I’m just into women

I would say that if you expect me to fool around with women, I want you to have take it violently up the rear from another man. Fair is fair.

a little touching but it must be kept in the open with each other.

WTF? Oh as long as you tell him that you fondled some dude or he fondled you then it is cool?

This man doesn't sound like a canidate for dating. The only thing he can be canidate for is the looney bin.

R.I.