My $.02 about whats been going on here
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|Fri, 08-08-2003 - 8:42pm|
I may not have always agreed with you.. but I truly value your posts. I may not agree with you all of the time.... but I respect how you say how you feel regardless of how other people take it.
This is not high school, girls.. Why even bother with saying.. yeah.. you said this, and only 3 people agreed with you, so I am right.. More people agreed with me than you, so I am right.. etc. etc. (I am paraphrasing here) Come on... Alot of people may have agreed with Deena, but didn't post. I know I did and I am just posting now. Why tell everyone to drop the subject, that it is water under the bridge, and then keep on posting about it?
Why bother Deena about her personal life? She has posted things of her life. Maybe she doesn't want all of her information online. To each their own.
To everyone.... If you don't want someone's true opinion.. don't post on a public board. Take it to email.
It seems like alot of times, this board can be all "bubble gum" meaning that alot of people like to say things to make other people happy.. Ohhhh you just met someone 2 days ago and you are already in love? WOW! Congratulations!! I am sooooooooo happy for you! and then the next week, the same person says.. I met someone else!! I am in love! Wow! Congratulations!! I am soooooooo happy for you again.. Come on, please.. I like to come on here and read that someone is telling someone their true feelings.
There are good and bad things about online relationships. Who are we to judge people on how they feel? But when you are constantly living thru the internet, and not trying to have a life outside of it.. you might need some help. Yes, there are good people online. Yes, there are bad people online. BE CAREFUL OUT THERE!!!
Some people are here because they visit dating sites, and meet a guy, take an interest, and meet up as soon as possible. They use the internet as an avenue. Why waste time online and meet someone and have no attraction? I can understand that.
Some people are here because they have met someone in a chat room or messaging service, and they have fell in love that way. Good for them too.
I met Willy in a chat. We talked online for over a year before we met in person. Why judge me? We are totally in love, and we were before we met in person. And it has worked out great for us. We are engaged, saving for our wedding and have been living together for over a year.
I have met people previous to Willy from the computer. I met another guy in a chat room, I met him in person and I got sexually assaulted. Did I ever want to talk to a guy online again? No way.. but it ended up happening. I met a guy on yahoo personals before Willy that I thought I could totally be into and when we met in person, NO CHEMISTRY. If we would have met sooner, we would have saved some time.
I have alot of friends that have met people on dating sites. I know one girl that meets these guys, has maybe a sexual relationship with them.. and it lasts 2 weeks or so.. That's her perogative.
A girl could pick up a guy in the bar, and take him home for a "good time", and a girl meets a guy online in her area, and decides to meet him for sex. What's the difference? One meets in public and can tell right away that they are attracted to the other person, and the other doesn't know for sure but takes a HUGE chance. I wouldn't want to put myself in either position. If you need sex that bad.. in my opinion, (note that I said my opinion) take a trip down to the local sex shop and stock up on AA batteries and a "special friend".
"Some people only read/hear. what they want to. Its called selective reading/hearing. I can see Deena will never try and see my point of view. " I guess you don't seem to see hers either. This is a 2 way street around here. She has a right to her own opinion, and you have a right to yours and you can go and sleep with whomever you want... If you don't want to hear what other people think.. don't post it on a public board.
Sorry for the babbling.