My ghost called!

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Registered: 01-01-2004
My ghost called!
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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:25pm

He called me last night and I didn't answer the phone because I thought it was a friend I didn't want to talk to.

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:58pm
once a ghost always a ghost. See if I'm not right.
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Registered: 01-01-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:06pm
What would you do in my situation?
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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:06pm

I'd like to amend that LG if you don't mind. Sparkle, he ignored you. You sent an angry I'm-A-Pissed-Chick email. He calls. You call back and apologize. He knows he has you in the bag. He'll ghost after he gets in your pants.

Now... see if I'M right.

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Registered: 07-31-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:09pm

Agree with the guys. Sorry Sparkle. You deserve better. We all do.

Lisa

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:17pm

The other flag fwiw is that he didn't ask you to meet - either before or after he left. JH and others have remarked that if the call doesn't end with a meet time then you often never end up seeing them.

I'd say that's pretty true. If I'm on a call and I don't want to meet I make up some b/s about having to check my schedule, see when I'll be around, blah, blah, blah.

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Registered: 01-01-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:20pm

Can you please be specific?

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Registered: 07-31-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:21pm

What does your gut tell you?

Lisa

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:29pm

Sparkle, something I've always known (as a guy) but have seen WRITTEN here by the women many times and can personally validate:

. His actions must match his words for there to be any truth to his words.

Excuses don't cut it. If you like him that much check him out and give him a chance.

Really.

But if he just SAYS and never DOES and you buy into it, don't look for any Hugs Icon from me.

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Registered: 01-01-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:41pm

I appreciate your input.

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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 8:49pm
I confess ghosting only happened to me once during my on-line odyssey. I don’t believe in sending any kind of e-mails/notes to the ghost because he is not worthy of it and most likely it will make him reappear and make my life complicated. There is a reason for why he ghosted in the first place and I don’t want to go there twice. People who are genuinely interested in you don't ghost.
Irina

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