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My ghost called!
| Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:25pm |
He called me last night and I didn't answer the phone because I thought it was a friend I didn't want to talk to.
| Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:25pm |
He called me last night and I didn't answer the phone because I thought it was a friend I didn't want to talk to.
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Yes, he did call, but what for? To chat about his ow-ie? I didn't hear a good enough excuse for not phoning -- he was busy at work Friday night, but was out playing in the snow on Saturday. Sunday night relaxing after a fun weekend doesn't cut it.
The purpose of phone calls in OLD is to set up a date. That's why it's called online dating. Experienced OLDers know that keeping a dating relationship on the phone or email creates a false impression about the two people; future meetings usually end up a disappointment.
But the biggest red flag, to me, is his lack of information in his profile. "I'm not sure I want to do this" -- WTF is that? Why, then, is he wasting your time?
Also my opinion -- you were very nice to him and he liked taking no responsibility for his inactions.
amjay
Now I remember your ghost -- you sent him that snotty email, right? And didn't I strongly advise you to block after sending??
Now look what's happened -- you were clear yesterday, and now you are unsure.
Tsk, tsk.
Blocking him wouldn't have mattered in this case because he called on the phone.
Heres how it works. You called him back AFTER you nasty-emailed AND APOLOGIZED.
Your his now.
He'll string you along with dates and calls when it fits HIS schedule.
You'll relent because you like him and think that sex will somehow bring you closer.
You can prove me wrong. Go out with and don't put out. If you end up with a lasting relationship and prove me wrong... you win. And that would be excellent.
If I'm right... then only he wins.
PLEASE MOVE OOONNN gf! You are so where I was in the beginning of this. There are SO MANY others out there, who WILL call when they say they will. If he really wanted to, believe me, he would have found 2 frekin minutes to give you a quick call! DUMP THIS DUDE AND MOVE ON!
NEXT! him, in OLD terms. k?
And update us on the new guy tomorrow.
JAYME
he's a guy.
True, true.
Incidentally, someone I who winked at me who I wrote back to just wrote to me.
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