My ghost called!

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Registered: 01-01-2004
My ghost called!
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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:25pm

He called me last night and I didn't answer the phone because I thought it was a friend I didn't want to talk to.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:27pm
Good luck, sparkle!!! I'll be rooting for you.
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Registered: 01-01-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:40pm

Thanks!

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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:42pm

i dont think hes the right match (i dont think he ghosted, he flaked) for sparkle because he seems like the "fun for now" type.

I dont thnk you are looking for that, right sparkle? If you are just into casually hanging out every now/then, then this is your guy. If not, then don't even bother answering his call when hes back in town. He sounds very wishy washy about OLD. when I was this way, i'd want to meet someone but held back (so then i was flakey, just like this dude). When I was really into someone, I met up w/ him no matter what. Injury or not. Ive got an ACL injury btw, and its very painful. I can see why he was talking about it. Not an excuse, but when guys are sicks/hurt whatever, they have what I call tunnel vision. Not because they are selfish, but because they can only see whats right there - them sick/hurt/etc.

Anyways, bottom line, I tend to agree w/ the other posters with a twist. That hes just good for "fun for now"; anything more serious, I question. I dont think hes really ready for OLD or dating at this pt.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:46pm
A nickname, based on my initials: A.M.J.
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Registered: 01-01-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 11:14pm

Okay...you know what?

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 11:37pm

Sparkle,

You need to weed out anyone who doesn't completely fill out his profile! He isn't just trying to be private - he's got something to hide. Either that, or he's completely dumb. If he isn't calling you too much, then lose him. YOU have nothing to lose.

Jan

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