My success story

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Registered: 08-04-2004
My success story
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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 6:31pm

Well, hopefully I will finally get this all out for ya'll. I keep trying and getting interrupted....

Anyway,

The guy I have mentioned a few times over the last couple of months, the attorney, is "the One". I know it, he knows it and it is amazing and I am so happy and thankful that lavalife exists I am going to have to send them a thank you letter. And if it happened for me, it will happen for everyone else here too, I know it! Everyone here is so great you will all meet just the most amazing person that is perfect for you and it will be so exciting :-)

I am so happy I don't even know how to tell my story, other than it has happenned. I don't want to post a book (and believe me I could, lol) but I am not entirely sure what to write. All I can say, and I think I did once already is, that book, JNITY, is right on and for all you girls, if the guy is into YOU, you are going to know it and will not question it at all.

Darn, interrupted again. But I am so happy and I am goping to continue coming to this board 'cause ya'll are a great bunch of peeps in my book! (and I will invite you all to the wedding :-))

Best wishes,
J

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Registered: 07-03-2004
In reply to: jlmnde
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 8:00pm
Might be better if people emailed you for the story. Just my vote.
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Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: jlmnde
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 8:13pm
SP,
I sent you an email. I hope you get it okay.
J
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 9:14am
I'd love to read it also... sunflowerct@hotmail.com
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Registered: 05-20-2004
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 9:23am

Jlmnde-

Your happiness and excitement are super infectious. I am thrilled to hear of your success. I wish we had more of these type of stories as opposed to the ones that most of us share. Honestly as much as I love this board, sometimes I think we sort of become pessimistic.

I wish you ALL THE BEST in this wonderful relationship.

Sincerely,
Jodie

 

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Registered: 11-18-2003
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 10:11am

That's wonderful to hear. I'm very happy for you.

 

 

 

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 11:42am
Hey J! I'd love to read your story too - heatherw17@sbcglobal.net is my new email that I check on a regular basis. I look forward to getting it!

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Registered: 10-26-2004
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 12:01pm

Hi J,

Could not agree with you more and SO happy for you all, too! :)

If you find the right man, there are NO hall passes (letting them 'get by' with not calling for 2 or 3 days, etc), no worries and they actually anticipate your needs, so it flows like melted chocolate--yes, as Good as that!

I wish this for Everyone here. Without the support and education I got from y'all, I would not have been able to make it through OLD. Tall Man is The One for me, and me for Him, and as I told him the other day, if this is what life will be like, being in love AND 'like' with him, then sign me up right now! I know every day cannot be perfect, but the Main thing we are developing is a strong friendship and sense of being allies, and "in this together". Everything else falls into line after that, and adds icing!

Glad to see that so many have found what they are looking for, and for those who have not...it is just a "Yet" thing--it will happen!

Truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 03-18-2005
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 1:17pm

Thank you for you story – I keep trying to reply back to your email and it says it’s undeliverable???

SP

The Small Peanut

 
 
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Registered: 06-28-2004
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 1:43pm

I'd love to hear your story!!! I just posted a new profile on lava after hearing about your good fortune...but I think that I am going to take it back down for a little while, as I have some things that I need to address within/for myself before I attempt that wheel again.

kriskats@msn.com

Looking forward to hearing a "real life" love story!

Jennifer

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Registered: 04-16-2004
In reply to: jlmnde
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:27pm

First to J...Congratulations. It's good to see you so happy!!!

Caupcake...I'm glad things are going so well for you and Tall Man too. Nice to see some happy faces around here!

I have a question re: "No hall passes". Don't you think that's a little unrealistic and harsh? Your partner will make mistakes in the relationship, as may you. I think you need to make room for errors. Wouldn't you like to be given another chance if you messed up? I know I would and I'd hate to have the added pressure of being expected to be the perfect mate all the time. We're all only human. JMO.