My Tuesday Wish Came True!

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My Tuesday Wish Came True!
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Tue, 04-01-2003 - 9:38pm
I talked to Brandon tonight...yay! The first thing he did when he got online was message me and tell me how sorry he was. He said that his internet has been down lately and he was busy with work as well. But now the internet is back up and running so he promised we'd go back to talking everynight again. He apologized to me more than enough, then told me how much he had missed me....I think he really did feel horrible for leaving me hanging like that. He felt absolutely horrible that he made me cry too. I'm so happy right now that I could just float...thanks to everyone that helped me through this, I know you all said that I should just drop him, but I just can't do that. I believe in giving people second chances and he did have a good reason for why he wasn't online....I trust him and I love him and in my book thats all I need :)

Lindsay

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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 2:31am
Yay Linds! Great to hear! Nothing wrong with giving someone a second chance...A 3rd is definetly pushing it tho ;). I'm glad everything is going well and I hope it continues on the same path!

*hugs*

~Kristina

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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 7:26am
I'm glad it all worked out, Lindsay. Have you two talked about him having your phone number so that he can call you if this happens again?
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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 8:43am
I'm glad you're feeling happy right now Lindsay. I guess the only thing that I'm wondering is, why didn't he call you to tell you what was going on?
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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 9:08am
Or, maybe he could use someone's computer just to send a quick "I'm here!" email.
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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 9:49am
You go girl... Do what you have to. This is what you feel and you want to do go through with it. Wishing you the best.

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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 9:57am
I'm glad that you finally heard from him and that you're happy again!!

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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 10:07am
Can you fill me in on a few things? Do you two talk over the phone at all? I mean, how long have you two been at this on line thing? I just wonder, because I am thinking if this happens again, why cant he just call you really fast and tell you his computer was down? OR, why couldnt he email you from work and say that? I am just wondering, cause it seems like he could have prevented you fron alot of worry. I am glad to see he is back in your life and he is apologizing for his absence. Hope he is true to his word and nothing like this happens again. Glad to see you trust him through all this. That is very important. Goodluck to you.

gail
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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 12:20pm
To answer your questions (as well and what Kelly asked)...we've talked on the phone once, but that was last year when we were still in the "friend stage" we've been a couple for almost 2 weeks now, but we've been online friends for 2 years. The reason he didn't call me is because his phone was down too....the internet and phone service are with the same company and they were having a lot of problems, which is why he wasn't online either. He doesn't have a cell phone, so that wouldn't have worked and he doesn't have a computer at work either (he works at the mall). There are probably some things that he could have done, but he didn't, which kinda sucks, but at least he apologized for everything and he does feel really really bad. Thanks for your concern though!!

Lindsay

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Wed, 04-02-2003 - 5:31pm
Lindsay, I'm glad your feeling happy :) keep your eye on this hon...remember some of the ol rules about contact and disappearances ok? It's important that he continues to make the effort for the relationship to work because this is an olr and contact and communication is all you have right now!

Lots of hugs sweetie!

jayecey