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|Wed, 08-13-2003 - 9:13am|
Fast forward to now. Now, I am spending every weekend at his house - he lives 1.5 hr drive away. He has met my friends and I have met his several times. We don't go out alot but he's a home body, but we do go out to dinner or for a drink or to play pool occasionally.
My family lives 1000 miles away, and though they have never met him, they know about him by name. His family, lives 15 mins from him, and I haven't met them and to my knowledge doesn't know about me. A couple of times now when i've been there for the weekend, he has gotten a call from his Mother and turned around and told me he's going to lunch at his mom's he'll be back in an hr. Another time he told me at 11am on saturday as we're lying in bed that he has to be at his parents at 12:30am for his sisters bday lunch!! This past Saturday he pulled the "Momma called and i'm going to lunch.." thing and of course expected me to wait. We had a huge blow out where I was crying and felt like trash because I wasn't good enough to go with him or be invited. He said he's just not ready to have me meet them yet. It's a big deal. But I will meet them eventually. I'm really bothered by that. I'm bothered by the fact they don't know about me, and i'm bothered that he's not 'ready' for me to meet them. Why the heck not?? I told him that if this is just a sex thing then lets get that out there so we're not fooling ourselves. He said that's not it. He's just not ready. He went to lunch. Came back. Brought me left overs and spent the rest of the weekend doing little things to make it up to me. But the whole time I felt like i'm not important to him...
Am I being unreasonalble here? I feel like saying i'm having some really big issues with it and you need to tell them I exist ... I need some advice on how to handle this situation.