never asked for a picture....

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Registered: 02-01-2005
never asked for a picture....
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Thu, 12-01-2005 - 6:08pm
I had a guy email me through yahoo - we have a lot in common, and have been talking over yahoo messanger. He wanted to meet for a drink as soon as I'm feeling better (stupid cold), but hasn't asked me for a picture. I feel strange offering one - there just doesn't seem to be a good moment in the conversations. Is this normal for a guy not to ask?








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Registered: 11-05-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 8:50pm
Have you seen his picture?
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Registered: 02-01-2005
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 8:52pm
Yes. He's not my type, but he looks like someone I could become attracted to pretty easily.








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Registered: 11-05-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 8:57pm
Well, it is weird for a guy to not have asked for a picture yet. When making plans, just say "would you like to see a picture of me so you know what I look like at the coffee house (or whatever)".
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Registered: 11-27-2005
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 10:51pm
No, not normal at all! I have yet to encounter a guy who didn't want pics, and some even keep asking for more pics. My first guess is that maybe he is chatting w/so many women that he can't keep all of them straight and doesn't realize he hasn't seen your pic. Does he seem to remember details you have told him?
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Registered: 02-01-2005
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 10:57pm
Oh, yes, he remembers details. Maybe he is keeping notes?








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Registered: 11-27-2005
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 11:02pm

I was thinking that he might be chatting w/several women and thinking that he already saw your pic (confusing you w/someone else) - but if he remembers details about you, there goes that theory. I don't know what to tell you, other than I have never heard of a guy not asking for a pic.

If you are going to meet him, I would just send him a pic w/a casual note saying, here is a pic so you can recognize me.