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| Tue, 10-04-2005 - 5:52pm |
I've met a guy online and we dated twice and we chat on IM pretty much every night. This week he has to work so we can't chat though. He said we could email instead. At the first of this week, he mentioned that he might not be doing anything this weekend. So we said that if he wasn't, I would go to his place again. I emailed him today asking how his week was going and how his plans were coming for the weekend. He replied saying that he and his aunt were trying to figure out where dinner would be and that so far nobody asked him to work overtime but things could change very quickly. He never mentioned anything about us getting together again. I asked him jokingly if he missed me at the beginning of my email and he said "of course he missed me". I don't know how to take him. I'm getting the feeling that's a lie and he doesn't want to see me again.

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Edited 10/4/2005 6:30 pm ET ET by cute_one2005
I just hate it when you've established a pattern with someone (like IMing or chatting daily), and then something changes that pattern. It's normal to imagine that something between you two has changed.
I'm sure you haven't said or did anything wrong, so try not to think too much about this weekend and keep yourself busy until then.
Edited 10/4/2005 6:55 pm ET ET by cute_one2005
It's hard to tell. Since you have a relatively new history, it could be that he's just meeting up with his aunt and has a crazy schedule that he needs to play by ear or it could be he's putting you on hold. Not sure... is there anything else within his behavior that is leading you to think he's giving you the brush off?
I know you mentioned IMing and emailing... but do you guys call each other at all? Do you have his home number? (Just a ? of curiosity.)
I would hold off on thinking anything is strange until you get to that point. If he doesn't confirm something by tomorrow night, then I would say go on about your business and make a date with some friends. If this guy has intentions of seeing you again, he will. And as another poster said... keep the dates outside of the home for awhile until you establish what you're doing here.
Hope this helps.
"I would avoid asking loaded questions like "Did you miss me"? in the near future."
Ditto!!!
I agree.
CL-Truewild1969
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