New approach is apparently working
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| Thu, 12-08-2005 - 8:13pm |
"You know... if you add up the time we've "known" each other, its been almost a year (ok, don't get into the details on that... details bad) so when do I get to actually talk to the travel agent totin' engineersitter??? It about time... don't ya think?? *wink*"
I posted about the guy that wrote the above message a few weeks ago. We had chatted on Match.com about 8 months ago, and after a while, he just faded into the woodwork. He had never hinted about taking our chats any further than the Match e-mail.
Well, I decided on a different approach this time around, acting like I had no interest in him romantically, no flirting, just friendly chit-chat, thinking that it's all in the thrill of the chase for guys...and he bites!
I never realized that playing coy would get me where I wanted to be! lol
I'll keep you posted...

Wow...you wait weeks and weeks to delete them. I guess I was a lot more impatient about it all.
I had a system. I would send out about 10 winks, if I got no response within 3 days I wrote them off. I only sent winks to people that had been active within the last week. I would only email for a couple of days before suggesting a meeting in a public place. The first meeting was only a couple of hours. If I never heard from them again I moved on, if I did and liked them I'd go out again. Then I'd start all over again...cruise the profiles, send out the winks...
It was great! I met lots of terrific