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New Discussion-Rude First Meets!
| Wed, 04-12-2006 - 10:10am |
The two posts on the other thread got me thinking... What has been your rudest first meet?
| Wed, 04-12-2006 - 10:10am |
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Thankfully I can't ever recall having a "rude" first date...just some interesting/clueless ones.
Most notably was the time I went out with a veterinarian who took me to a nice restaurant, but then quickly seated himself right next to me so I had to turn my head to look at him the entire night (we're talking 5 hours, folks). Anyway, he jibbered and jabbered the evening away with his tales of vet school, his fishing expeditions and so on and so forth. By the end of the evening, my neck hurt so bad! I was also rather young-ish at the time (23, I think) so I really didn't think it was appropriate for me to end the date early when he was the one who did the asking. I know better now :)
In the end, I knew there was no chemistry. Sadly, he didn't feel the same way and began calling, visiting the house unannounced (another reason why you shouldn't have him pick you up at your place for the first few dates, ladies!). Ugh. I had a hard time shaking that guy off...but thankfully, he finally got the picture and left me alone.
Yeah..you could say I ghosted :P
Another time, I met someone at a restaurant lounge during dinner hours. It was around 6pm or so and I was just beginning to get the hunger pangs. But when the waitress came around to take our order he quickly spouted "Oh, we're only here for drinks". When the date ended a few hours later, I was super hungry and stopped off at a local pizza joint to chow down before going home!
It didn't make a good impression. But it didn't matter much anyway- no chemistry with him either :)
I guess my rudest date was with a guy named Steve (I never did get his last name). His email said "John Doe" so I should have been able to figure him out. But we emailed for a week or two and then met at a nice restaurant. When he came in, I realized he was definitely not for me (I'm not into men who wear beige, crepe sole shoes, too geeky, plus at 5'4" I was about his height) but he seemed nice so I gave him a chance. He was uber educated like me, a psychologist, so I thought he has to have some goodness, stability, character. NOT!
About half way through dinner, he said "Chick, you are way too sweet a woman to lie to. I'm married and I fully intend to stay that way. But I've never been faithful to my wife. I started a liaison with a woman 8 weeks after my marriage that lasted 8 years and there have been many more. She doesn't know about what I do and it would probably kill her if she did."
Um, ok...I finally asked him (when I'd picked my jaw up off the floor) what the heck he had to offer me (???????) and he said "oh that's easy, good sex!"
Yes friends, all I need in life is good sex, nothing more, and ok, if the poor wife finds out about me, she dies. I want no part of that idiocy.
yeap, it can't get much worse than that...watch out for the John Doe's.
Chick
Oh lordy!!!
The saddest thing about that story is that it sounds like he has no problem finding women to have "good sex" with, despite the wife.
This wanst an OLD< but years ago it was a blind date with an attorney. OMG. he was SO cheap he squeaked.
1st we met for a drink & then drove up to an Italian rest in his car. It was an old beat up Mercedes. He kept making excuses that his "good car" was in the shop.
Ewwww! "lacked in personal & dental hygeiene!?!" How did you STAND it more than once!? ICK!
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