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Registered: 05-17-2003
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Sun, 10-30-2005 - 3:58pm

I joined this site a year ago! there was a match couple of weeks ago. We have been chatting and talking the phone as well. Hm ... things are going well that seem to be.

How do you know if the person is telling the truth? the person sounds really sincere and a good catch?

We talk about meeting -- a date soon.

Pizza

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Registered: 09-14-2005
In reply to: pizza206
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 4:15pm

By spending time in real life with them. However, that being said there are some people whom will never tell the truth so you would never know. I am reminded of the woman married to the BTK killer. She had no clue whatsoever that she lived with a monster. I know that's the worst case scenario and the likelihood of that happening to any of us is very remote. I just don't believe a guy's words whatsoever until he backs them up consistently with action.