New Here, couple of questions

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-02-2003
New Here, couple of questions
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Wed, 08-24-2005 - 11:17pm

Hi all, just found your board, and thank goodness!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 7:54am

Don't wear a hat in the picture!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 8:44am

I agree with what firstamendment said. I don't do OLD any longer as I am in r'ship. However, when I did do it I used to critique the competition too. I would see wht I did and did not like and apply that to my profile.

The bottom line is you have feel confident about the profile and pics you post.

And while I don't agree with your aunt trying to match you up with men you feel are too old it does bring to mind a thought. Looks were paramount when I had strated OLD. I did learn to look beyond physical appearance. I definitley had my "preferences", but I broadened my horizons.

Good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-02-2003
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 12:23pm

Thanks for the advice ladies, and I certainly didn't want to come across as someone who is only interested in looks, but what I was saying about my Aunt is that when I look at her relationship I get the feeling that some of the comprimises she made, she made because she was worried about ending up alone, so now is pushing me towards someone (anyone) so that I won't end up alone either.