The new me

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Registered: 12-19-2006
The new me
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 12:29am

I've been a regular on this board for a couple of months, but I have chosen to change my handle thanks to some good advice from you guys and for the sake of remaining annonomous.

Now, I wanted to also vent a little. Crazy religious guy is becoming a stalker. He just sent me an email with his panties all in a bunch because I have "fallen off the face of the earth." Apparently I am horribly rude for not answering the phone when he calls me at 11:30 at night! He's the one who said that satan has a hold on me and he wants to lay the smackdown on him for keeping me from going to church with him. Now crazy religious guy wants to know if there is anything he can do to help me. Well, he can start by leaving me alone and I know I'd feel much better! He's creepy. I think I may have to block him. Ugh.

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Registered: 04-09-2008
In reply to: writerchick007
Tue, 12-19-2006 - 12:45am

Hey!

Yeah, I think someone you just met pressuring you to be more religious is beyond spooky. I would tell him you are no longer interested in pursuing a relationship and then block him. No sense in getting into a debate with such a disrespectful person who shoves religion in your face.

Devorah

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: writerchick007
Tue, 12-19-2006 - 2:22pm
Yes, there are times where ghosting doesn't work. I suggest sending him a quick email saying that you don't feel that the two of you are a good match and then if you have to, block him. But send the email first. He has your phone number so he can still call and continue to want to lay the smackdown on Satan for you.

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