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Registered: 08-18-2008
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Mon, 07-04-2011 - 4:50pm

I signed up recently for OLD and I'm confused about the winks that I'm getting and

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: stefson
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 11:01pm

I really feel my age is the problem being online.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
In reply to: stefson
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 9:26pm

It can be quite overwhelming but always remember to follow your gut instinct.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: stefson
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 2:09pm

I just removed my profile all together.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: stefson
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 1:50pm

are you on POF?
i am on there and finding when I log on which isnt too often anymore like you I am getting instant messaging more than an email.

I too wonder about that because then I am thinking do they have a gfriend or are married or something strange because they are IMing more and not emailing..

mabye they have nothing to do and want to chat which drives me crazy.

I would rather email and then talk on phone and then meet and move on..

I have found on rare occasion some wackos will use IM to try and have cyber sex and drity perverted talk. I just block them right away but it is an easy way to get off as they say if someone is a willing participant (lol)

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: stefson
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 12:20am

The men might do that to me, too.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: stefson
Fri, 07-08-2011 - 11:17pm

Hi I would leave that.

dragowoman

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: stefson
Fri, 07-08-2011 - 6:45pm

My status on OLD is never married.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: stefson
Tue, 07-05-2011 - 10:18pm

Yes it is but strike while the iron is hot!

dragowoman

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: stefson
Tue, 07-05-2011 - 6:41pm

Okay, thanks for the feedback.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: stefson
Tue, 07-05-2011 - 2:11am

When I did not want to pay for the OLD membership and still figure out a way to get the woman's attention then I would wink

I realized that in order to make any progress in actually dating someone from an OLD site I would need to be a member and actually message the woman so she can get back to me if she was interested.

So I would ignore winks.

What questions to ask?

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