New/just did something crazy!!!

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Registered: 07-03-2003
New/just did something crazy!!!
Sun, 08-22-2010 - 12:55am

I was very iffy with the whole online dating thing. The dating scene lately has been crazy for me well....this whole summer!! I went from being divorced and staying single for almost 2 dating a total of 5 men this summer!!! However, there seems to be a lack of what I'm looking for. I'm 27, a mother of 2, in college, and living on my own. All the men I meet are debt or still living with parents. So I thought what about a sugar daddy site? Omg! Here I am iffy on regular dating sites and I just went to the extreme. I feel a little silly. But at least this way I know they would pay for the dates...ah I feel insane right about now!! And I must admit I am a little terrified at what I will find! But I don't have to answer right...if anyone does happen to try to contact me.....

I just thought I needed a break from dating and then I go and do this!! lol


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Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 08-22-2010 - 2:03am
Hi Roxanne...I'm not new to the messageboards but am new to this forum... I say go for it. why not? maybe this change will turn out to be wonderful and something much needed or at least exciting. I just started talking to men online...and it's fun. at first it was kinda scary and i felt like i was obligated to talk to the guys that were interested even if i wasn't. But that's not true. i don't owe these men anything...i don't even know them no u don't have to reply or respond if u don't want to. why should u have to? Just have fun...i'm's been a year so i just wanna have fun. not sleep around or anything but realize that there are other options out there for me.
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Registered: 01-20-2009
Sun, 08-22-2010 - 8:12am

I read your post and just wanted to give you a heads up about OLD sites. I've been on and off OLD for 6 yrs. I have also checked out with searches many of the different sites. I had done a search on and found a few problems. A guy that I had started chatting with on Yahoo was also on Sugardaddy. He had told me that he was recently laid off from work. He was in the auto industry, a factory worker. Well, on Sugardaddy he said he was an exec. in the auto industry.

There were several other guys on there that I recognized from other sites. Just because they are on that site doesn't mean they are going to pay for anything! See what happens you never know. Life is stranger then fiction!!

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Registered: 08-02-2010
Sun, 08-22-2010 - 3:39pm

Welcome to the board!!

In my opinion it all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking for a long term relationship hoping for marriage then that website would not be a good idea. If you are looking for someone to just take care of you then it's fine.

All I can say advice-wise is be true to what you are looking for....

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 2:29pm
Sounds interesting and fun! I hope you'll let us know how it goes...I'd love to hear all about your sugar-daddy adventures. ;)