Nice guy, 5 kids. what do I do??

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Registered: 10-08-2005
Nice guy, 5 kids. what do I do??
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Wed, 10-19-2005 - 10:05pm

I answered this guy's e-mail because our profiles are compatible, and I found him attractive. We've e-mailed & talked on the phone. He told me early on that he has 5 kids, and I continued the communication because of the mentioned attraction. He seems like a great guy, from what little I know, and we're going to meet next week. But....5 kids!! I have two. Can I handle this?? Should I stop it before it starts?? (not what I want to do)

HELP!!!

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 1:12pm

I have not read the other replies. I think it is worth a shot....meet him and see how it goes! You could be like those big con-joined families in the old movies! Cute! ;)

Sara

 
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Registered: 10-08-2005
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 9:44pm

Thanks all. If I'm to believe his profile, he's a professional making good money. We talked for quite some time on the phone & hit it off nicely..."connected" if you will. I'm going to meet him & see how it goes. I will ask how often he has his kids if we make it to a 2nd or 3rd date.

Their mom is very active in the kids' lives, so it's not like he's looking for a replacement mother.

I don't want any more kids...if he does, then that will be my deal breaker, of course. Otherwise, I guess we'll just have to see how it goes.

Thanks for all the input..I'll keep you posted!

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