No luck

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Registered: 05-30-2006
No luck
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Wed, 07-12-2006 - 6:44pm

I've been getting views on match but no emails/winks or anything. when you have views from several different people, I wish you could tell who was doing the viewing when your views goes up. I guess I'll never know if the girl I mailed is a member and can even read my mail or not. I guess I should have sent a wink first. Same goes for yahoo, I have an account on there too now. I'm really trying hard to find someone but its very frustrating.... and some of the women I want to talk to most haven't even been on in a few weeks. I've re-submitted my profiles a few times and now even I think they are decent and ive changed my pics and stuff. I don't want to talk about my depression too much on here because I know they have a forum just for that but yeah its been really really bad lately and all this is not helping. I'm so sick of being disappointed every time i check my mail.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2005
In reply to: gl_1911
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 9:25pm
Please don't let the empty mailbox get you down. That happpens to all of us ... more people than ever admit it I bet. Just don't let it get the better of you.
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Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: gl_1911
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 10:04pm

It happens ALL the time. My profile doesn't have a picture and pretty bluntly says that they aren't going to get sex from me. So yeah, some weeks I get zero emails/winks. I know many men search for profiles with photos only and many are put off by no sex. So I'm proactive about it - I wink at them. If they wink back, or better yet, email, I know they're at least slightly interested. I've been doing that pretty hardcore the past few weeks and have gotten about one email a day. But I definitely know what it's like to have no email. It happens to us all.

Why don't you let us take a look at it for you?

And I agree, it totally sucks that you don't know if she's not emailing you back because she's not into you or she's just not a paying member.