No luck here...meeting lots of "babies"

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Registered: 12-06-2004
No luck here...meeting lots of "babies"
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Sat, 07-31-2010 - 1:13am

Hi,


I have had zero luck with online dating. These guys either are looking for a mistress, a fling or act like such babies and are inconsistant.


I joined this one, well actually 2 social dating sites where the guys were giving me their phone numbers in instant message and we didn't even talk once...it is so frustrating.


Anyone know of any good sights with mature men?

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 6:54am

Enlighten me: what is a "social dating site"? Is that different from just a dating site like match.com?

You're going to find men behaving badly on lots of dating sites. But in general, the ones you have to pay for are going to attract a higher quality like match.com and eHarmony. However, I've heard of many people who met via Plenty of Fish, and it's free.

You have to have a thick skin to do OLD, unfortunately.

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Registered: 02-23-2010
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 3:24pm
Online dating takes patience because you will find lots of men with different agendas. Stay true to your goal and take a breather every once in a while to blow off the frustration. There are great guys out there and it takes time...
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 3:51pm
First stop whining. 2nd help him find a mistress,FWB,BC after all learning to help people might help yourself. Most guys know some bloke who is right for you.

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Registered: 12-06-2004
Tue, 08-03-2010 - 4:02pm