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|Sat, 10-12-2013 - 9:01pm|
I am newer to OLD. I have dabbled in it before but never actually meet anyone off of it until more recently. That relationship ended after 5 months and overall was success regardless if it didnt work out.
Well I am on a paid site that forwards matches based on common interests. Two of the matches went back and forth via email for last two weeks with basically dying off few days ago. One must have not liked something I said and did not respond and the other just was really going nowhere and I lost interest. I blocked two and am now down to two left. One remaining is nice but after going back and forth has not asked offline yet. He will get the boot as of next week. The other one I am actually extremely interested in yet has basically written me the least out of any of the four matches. Yet his first message was the most sincere out of all. He basically said he thought I was absolutely beautiful and was sure I got a lot of messages ( I do but most are deleted) but if I'd like to talk he was definitely interested. I wrote back following day thanking him for the compliment and also wrote that I had visited his city before and commented how beautiful the area is. He lives a few states away. It wasn't overly thought out and it was sort of just rushed back. I saw he looked at it next day and then no response for until he wrote me back following weekend at 4am two words "Morning Beautiful." I thought by that time definitely no interest. But i wrote him back "Hope you're enjoying your weekend." I saw he read it four days later. It has been a week now and I was thinking of just sending something flirty his way to let him know I am interested and do find him my type --which I guess should have done right off the bat. He owns his own business and travels but with smartphone I dont think there is really a legit reason for such lag in response other than no interest or thinking I am not overly interested. Should I be doing something differently with my e-mails?. I work corporate and email business all day. I think my emails come off sort of too to the point and no nonsense.
Any pointers thanks....Also, what are you thoughts on either visiting his page show that it comes up on his viewed profiles or emailing something short but flirty to show one last attempt of interest before i block this one out as well. As of now it has been a week ugh