Non-negotiables

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
Non-negotiables
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Thu, 11-03-2005 - 5:10pm
How do you respond to men who repeatedly question yours? I don't owe them any explanation obviously, but I don't want to come off as rude.






iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Thu, 11-03-2005 - 6:00pm

Tell them in a nice, yet firm manner that it's not up for discussion, that everyone has choices and these are yours but that you wish them the best of luck.


I had a guy who questioned me once... I basically told him that just as he's looking for a woman who was a certain size, I was looking for specific criteria in the guys I dated. That ended that discussion... ;o)