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not many common interests anyway
| Sun, 06-05-2005 - 6:53am |
I guess me and this guy didn't have many common interests so it probably wouldn't have worked anyway. That's how I'm trying to look at it now.
Here are our differences:
-he likes participating and watching sports, I don't
-he likes country music, I don't
-he drinks more often than I do
-we work complete opposite hours so we wouldn't see each other much
-don't live very close (he drives but I don't)
-he has more friends and does more in his free time than I do
There might be more but that's all I can think of now. It's probably best that it happened this way. It's just that I'm finding it so hard to meet somebody that I really grasp onto those that I do meet and don't want to lose them. Pretty bad.
Edited 6/5/2005 6:55 am ET ET by dream_angel2005

I'm sorry you're feeling this way... (I was feeling this too this weekend!)
<< It's just that I'm finding it so hard to meet somebody that I really grasp onto those that I do meet and don't want to lose them. Pretty bad. >>
I don't think it's bad, just natural. It is very hard to meet the right person, and I think continued frustration leads to a feeling of desperation. Don't let that happen, though, because then you'll end up settling on a guy that isn't what you really want.
Good luck & hang in there.. :-)
Eric
Edited 6/5/2005 3:08 pm ET ET by dream_angel2005
I had a similar situation happen to me, and I was saying the exact same things you are.
First of all, please don't think he didn't like you because of something you did or didn't do. Then you end up second-guessing everything, and the next date you will put a lot of pressure on yourself to not do the same thing. You should always just be yourself, and you will be fine.
Like I said, after a similar experience, I wanted to hear from her so I could "confirm" what went wrong. I wanted to find out what I did to make her not be interested in me. But truth be told, she probably just was not interested, not because of anything I did.
You are doing the right thing to think about all the stuff you didn't have in common with this guy. That way, you can realize that there's probably a much better match waiting for you. In the long run, you will end up much happier.
Eric
there is a book- were you really into him??
rather than wondering if someone was into us, we do need to see if maybe we were wearing rose colored glasses or blinded by something that possibly they were not right for US!! think that way and it will be less of a blow to your ego. It's not you!
Exactly Rosema! You said, "...possibly they were not right for US!!..." Exactly and it's their loss!!!
Sunshine