Not a peep.. from me or him

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Not a peep.. from me or him
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Thu, 09-22-2005 - 11:36am

Oh well, I haven't heard from bachelor #1 at all. No email, no text, no phone call. I don't have an emotion for that... b/c I know if he never contacts me again- it wasn't meant to be and if he does contact me, well, then I have the choice to see him again or ignore him.

I spent about an hour last night sending icebreakers to potential bachelor's on Yahoo last night, and then I got an email this morning saying that perfectmatch.com is having a free weekend.. starting today until noon on Monday, you can email or IM people for free.

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Registered: 05-09-2005
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 3:21pm

Let it go and move on.....

Mmh, I'll have to check out perfectmatch.com.

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 4:40pm

Hi Kae, I've been following your posts about your bachelors, I am sorry that the one you like the most did not turn out all right. I find it too frustrating sometimes myself, but you know? the best strategy is to keep dating several guys. I was like you concentrating on just one guy, will he call me, does he like me, does he think of me, etc. you get the point. But now like the others have said it, if they don't like you enough they won't pursue you, period, I have come to realize that the hard way.

Now just to update you, I went on a second date last night, this guy is amazing, I really like him and eventhough I wish things will turn out well with this guy, I am not holding my breath. I have not called him at all, he's the one always calling me to pin a date with me, this morning he sent me an email telling me he had an amazing time with me and that he's thinking of me, he wants to see me again next week! See, if you let them be, they come to you. I am also dating three other guys so if one does not call the others do and I am just playing cool. I have met so many great guys and in fact, last night there was another one that called but I don't remember who he is, I've been so busy with the ones I have, lol... I need to return his call and find out who he is, b/c if they don't call me or pursue me, I tend to forget about them :)