Not planned!

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Registered: 11-02-2005
Not planned!
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Sun, 11-06-2005 - 2:54pm
Well, I had a fun weekend right. Just like i wanted to. I didnt really think about my guy (internet guy) so much. But, something a little unexpected happened. Never did I ever think I would find a great guy. Well I did. So now I have a problem. Both of them are so awesome. Yea. Problem huh! I don't know what to do!!!
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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: nicki8705
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:02pm
How long have you been seeing both?

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Registered: 11-02-2005
In reply to: nicki8705
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:19pm
internet guy, lets call him bob, for two months and new guy, lets call him Joe, just met him on friday night
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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: nicki8705
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:25pm

Ok, this is a good situation... IMHO, I think it's too soon to think about choosing. Just go with the flow, don't deceive either (ie: your dating status) and see what comes of it.


You lucky chik! LOL


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Registered: 11-02-2005
In reply to: nicki8705
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:35pm
yea, it is kinda soon to pick i guess. im just freakin out a little i guess. ive never been in this situation. i feel like such a whiner! i could have none! lol. joe does know about bob. i mentioned it. but bob does not know about joe. should i tell him? im not gonna worry about it too much. ill try to enjoy it. like that will be hard. lol!
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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: nicki8705
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:42pm
Yes, I think you should tell Bob. It's only fair that he knows you're dating others. You don't have to be specific, just let him know so there is no mis-communication.