Not sure if these are red flags or not....

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Not sure if these are red flags or not....
Wed, 05-11-2011 - 2:17pm

I reported on my first date and what I wore.

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Wed, 05-11-2011 - 3:49pm

The clean house comment,

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Wed, 05-11-2011 - 4:04pm

For me, a guy wanting me to go to his place on the first (ok, I understand the circumstances) and then the second date would be weird. I also think that he should have understood why you wouldn't want. He might be one of these guys who want it too easy. If he doesn't agree on meeting in a restaurant, I would say forget him, since you're not too attracted anyways.

It's funny how when we're not sure about someone, it's often more than just the lack of physical attraction. I'm going to see if I see more of the things I didn't like about the guy I met last week tonight (I wrote about it in the other thread of yours).

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Wed, 05-11-2011 - 7:23pm

My late brother was gay & was not very neat and you would defiitely not know it if you met him--he always had tons of girlfriends in high school.

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Wed, 05-11-2011 - 9:57pm

I do think you are overthinking it some.

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Fri, 05-13-2011 - 10:17am


Hi. I am a man and don't think you have much evidence of anything yet.

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Sat, 05-14-2011 - 4:56pm

I am not sure what to say about the "gay" issue.