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Registered: 06-26-2004
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Tue, 12-27-2005 - 9:15pm
Just a little FYI...when you find someone interesting online, check to see if he's on any other sites. I've found most of these guys will post ads on several different sites. Alot of the guys I see on yahoo and match are also on....Adult Friend Finder (a swinger site).
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Registered: 03-19-2005
In reply to: jodyannrn
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 8:30am
I think alot of people have more than one profile up. That doesn't mean that they are memebers on all of them it just helps expand the search. What would bother me is if they had profiles up on 20+ sites. All major dating sites and free sites (friendster, plentyof fish, myspace,etc.) And in each profile looking for something different. LTR, casual dating or encounters.
After dating someone and having the "talk" about taking the profile down. They take the profile down from the site that you met and keep the other 19 up and hope you don't find out about them.
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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: jodyannrn
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 8:43am

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Registered: 07-21-2004
In reply to: jodyannrn
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 9:17am
I currently have ads up on both Yahoo and Match, as well as MySpace.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: jodyannrn
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 9:44am
I think most people have profiles up on multiple sites - it expands your pool. It doesn't necessarily mean you are a player or looking for someone else when you've found someone. Besides, until you agree to be exclusive with someone, they have every right to be on as many sites as they want. As for me, over the years I've had profiles on Match, Yahoo, eHarmony, lavalife, Matchmaker.com and a few other stupid ones I don't even remember so who knows what's been going on out there! At present, I am really only using eH and sorta lavalife (since my boycott of Match). Sure there are some players out there on the swinger sites but just because someone has multiple profiles doesn't mean that they are players.

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