now I'm thinking he met someone else
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| Sun, 11-06-2005 - 4:25pm |
I've been thinking and now I'm leaning towards this guy that I met online, might've met someone else and that's why he's not talking to me as much now. He never said he did but I wish he would if that's the case. First off, we've been online chatting pretty much every night since we first met in person over a month ago. All of a sudden, last week, he wasn't online for most of the week. I emailed and mentioned something about him not being online and he responded that he's been tired lately. Thurs he was online and we chatted for awhile which was great but I noticed that when he said he had to go to the store and then go to bed early, he stayed online, for how long, I don't know because I logged off before he did. Then Fri we weren't chatting long at all when he said he had to go to the washroom and he never came back, even after two hours. He left the IM on "busy" too. I was chatting with a friend online during this time so that's how I know he never came back or maybe he did but didn't want me to know. It seems weird though, because he was still talking like he always was about wanting to see me again and all that. Then he wasn't online yesterday or today at all. Oh yeah, he did say we could date other people. I never said anything back to him about that. He shouldn't be pretending he wants me if he doesn't.
Edited 11/6/2005 5:00 pm ET by frustrated_12
Edited 11/6/2005 7:39 pm ET by frustrated_12

This is more in solidarity than anything, as I've encountered my own frustrating situation recently. All I can offer is, I've been in communication with people before and somewhere along the way, the interest just kind of faded. There was no real reason for it, but a lot of the time, circumstances in my own life made it difficult to stay focused on online communication with a virtual stranger. What I'm saying is, don't take it personally. However, you can do something about it and suggest a face to face meeting. His response will reveal a lot. The possibilities for evasion are so much greater as long as your communication is solely taking place online. Once I decide I'm interested in a guy, and he hasn't suggested it already, I'll arrange an in-person meeting. I think his response--whether or not he's into it or continues to be evasive--is a valuable opportunity to learn more about him.
I feel your pain though and hope things get less frustrating for you. Good luck!
Yeah, this guy has moved on.
CL-Truewild1969
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