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|Sun, 12-06-2009 - 4:05pm|
I have been chatting with this man whom I met through facebook, we haven't met yet but we are determined to once our schedules clear up. He makes a great effort at getting to know me, we have talked twice on the phone and we communicate through email and msn. He is 7 years older than me, which is not a problem, but it does put us in different stages of life. I'm a student finishing up my last year of school and working full time, where he owns his own house, he's a manager of a great company and travels alot due to work.
Since our schedules are so busy, we have both come to understand that talking won't and can't happen everyday, so we like to make sure we talk at least 3-4 times a week through emails and msn.
I haven't had any concerns up until our conversation concerning cell phone numbers. He stated that he had a ex-girlfriend continue to call him over and over again which is why he is so hesitant on giving me his number. He says doesn't fear that I will do that, but I still don't have his number. He has called me twice from work and he knows my cell phone number.
The only reason I thought having the cell phone number before we officially meet was because we could get to know each other faster and it would be a great way to stay in contact. Our schedules will not allow us to meet until after the holidays because we are both out of town, which is why I think exchanging numbers would be so great.
I hate thinking negatively, but the fact that he is not sharing his cell phone number makes me think he doesn't want me known. He perhaps has a girlfriend or wife or something that he would like to keep the 2 worlds apart?
I don't want to think that, nor do I want that to be the reason. We are very into each other and he tells me how he feels quite frequently and has stated that once we meet if we are as great as we are online that it is no doubt we will be together. He is the one always asking when we can meet and all the ideas he has for us, but he won't share his number... which I find completely confusing.
What are your thoughts?