Is this odd? It seems so to me...
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| Wed, 11-22-2006 - 12:20pm |
So I finally posted my picture on Yahoo and now I'm getting tons of responses, which makes me feel a bit better about internet dating. I was getting one message a month before.
This guy emails me and tells me he likes my profile. I read his and from his pictures and his stats find him very attractive, but am not sure what to make of his "about me" part. He seems to have done a lot of internet dating and has been burned by women who are late for dates, dress like bag ladies on the first date, etc. He goes on to describe exactly what he wants and if you don't match that, go to the next profile.
I'm kind of intrigued so I email him back and we chatted on the phone last night. Here's where it gets kind of odd. He's very personable, nice guy, but he says he wants to put it out on the table that when a woman dates him, she has to be ready to be intimate (as he puts it) with him by the 4th or 5th date. He says he feels used if she dates him forever and doesn't sleep with him.
I told him I couldn't promise I'd have an intimate relationship with him by the 4th or 5th date, that I just don't always know how I feel about someone that quickly and that the guys who have hurt me the most in my life have been the ones who have rushed the early part of the relationship.
He says he shouldn't have to suffer the sins of his fathers. I say I shouldn't have to suffer the sins of my mothers. He says he's just putting it out there how he feels, that it makes him feel used and unattractive if a woman wants to just date forever with no intimacy. He also says a huge number of women have no sex drive. He wants lots of sex, which is fine with me, IF I like him that way.
Thoughts on this guy? He says in his profile that he has no baggage....he also says the ball's in my court now. Oddly enough, I'm feeling pressured.
Chick

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